My wife and I are on a sex schedule....and it's glorious
Now let me preface this by saying my wife and I have been married for more than a decade. We have two beautiful kids and our lives are pretty busy. That being said, there was a time when I was in the mood and she wasn't...my sex drive has always been more than hers (I once thought it was like that with all men in marriages but I have since learned otherwise). These times filled me be with bitterness and resentment and frustration. It got to the point sometimes where my pride got the best of me and I really think about finding satisfaction elsewhere with someone who was interested in me and having sex (This was my move when I was single, I have my main squeeze and a few side pieces -*I'm not proud of it but it's true). But I would never let it go beyond just thinking about it. It was a growing source of angst in our marriage and began effective our simple communication. I'd get so bitter sometimes that I wouldn't consider what she'd say or what she wanted